Husbands, loving your wife, according to the bible equals to doing for your wife what you do for yourself on a daily basis. When you think of loving your wife in that term, it makes it easier to understand what it means to Love Your Wife. The following is a list of 15 ways that you love yourself. Use this list as a reminder as to how you should love your wife.

1. You provide security and protection for yourself.

2. You make sure that you provide yourself with the items that you will need to make it through your day.

3. You make sure your appearance is maintained as needed for your daily tasks.

4. You provide yourself with protection from the emotional and physical damage that may come your way.

5. You increase your learning when necessary to make changes to your lifestyle.

6. You reprimand yourself for making bad decisions, but never in an abusive or hostile way.

7. You make sure your emotional needs are met through conversations with others.

8. You avoid or stay away from those who may be a danger to you.

9. You fulfill the desires that you have in a correct manner.

10. You may get mad at yourself, but you always get over it.

11. You make an effort to understand and accept who you are.

12. You are devoted to yourself and will never consider breaking that devotion.

13. You seek help from your earthly and Heavenly Father for guidance.

14. You give yourself the proper attention that you need.

15. You will never give up on loving yourself, even when times are hard.


Consider the following scripture –

Ephesians 5:28 (ESV) – In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
Ephesians 5:33 (ESV) – However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

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